Grief, death & loss

Surviving (and Maybe Even Thriving) the Holidays:

Surviving (and Maybe Even Thriving) the Holidays:A Love-Centred Guide to Christmas, Family, and Keeping Your Sanity Ahhh, the festive season. Twinkly lights. Full calendars. Too much food. Too little sleep. Big love, big feelings… and sometimes big explosions. The holidays have a funny way of amplifying everything. The joy [...]

2025-12-15T15:24:56+11:00December 15th, 2025|

Which Way to Go? Burial, Cremation or Other?

WHICH WAY TO GO? WHEN YOU’RE GONE, BUT  YOUR BODY IS STILL HERE  A summary of current and emerging funeral options when your body has died and the environmental considerations and legacy. By Sarah Tolmie, Community Funeral Director, Holistic Celebrant and End-of-Life Consultant with Picaluna Funerals. One of the first [...]

2025-10-06T13:01:14+11:00October 6th, 2025|

Grief as Sacred Work: A Soulful Invitation to Healing

Grief as Sacred Work: A Soulful Invitation to HealingBy Sarah Tolmie Dearly Beloved, Grief is not a mistake. It is not a mental illness or a personal failure. It is not something to be fixed, cured, or hustled through. It is sacred work — soul work — and in [...]

2025-07-18T16:37:25+10:00July 17th, 2025|

Why & How to talk to my family about my funeral wishes?

After Ryans private home farewell a larger community memorial was held at his parent's in-law property - complete with pizza van and beers. Not many of us die unexpectedly. In fact, for the most part, our deaths are like a slow train coming and we experience a [...]

2022-11-03T18:11:34+11:00November 3rd, 2022|

Matters of Life & Love – 55+ - March 2022 Reader Question: “I’ve been to four funerals in the last 3 months.  All good friends in my age group which is around or over 65 years old.  It’s too much. I feel numb.  I’m thinking I never want to [...]

2022-10-31T16:48:00+11:00October 31st, 2022|

Matters of Life & Love – 55+ - November/December Issue 2021 Reader Question: “My dog died. He was my constant companion these last 17years on my own. I have had many griefs in my life. I lost my husband 15 years ago. My brother only 2 months ago.  I [...]

2022-10-31T16:44:06+11:00October 31st, 2022|

Feeling Alone Together – Using our Emotions to Evolve Us Beyond COVID-19

On the Coast #55+ - May/June 2020 Well hasn’t life and love changed over the last few months? With the COVID-19 global pandemic our world will never be the same again.  The individual and collective grief and losses are too many and too painful to inventory fully – death, [...]

2021-07-24T10:52:14+10:00July 23rd, 2021|

The life & love legacy of COVID-19

On the Coast – 55+ (July/August 2020 Issue) The experience of COVID-19 has taught us many things about family, the importance of relationships and our home habits.  Months of lockdown brought intense scrutiny and focus on the minutia of our domestic environment and skills, and for many of us, [...]

2021-07-23T11:39:16+10:00July 23rd, 2021|
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